Archive for April, 2011

Avoid = Avoiding

Think about an Attachment and we may experience a nice warm-fuzzy feeling. We are of course attached to our family, our homes, our relationships, money, our beautiful stuff, and so forth. Think about an Aversion and what happens — instantly we are facing some resistance. If you are paying attention you’ll instantly notice a clutch […]


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The Single Most Important Thing You Can Do For Your Relationship

One of the most important things you can do to create the commitment you want in your relationship is to work with a straightforward, knowledgeable, and devoted Love Mentor™. This is the secret, the strategy that has totally transformed my life and the lives of thousands of others: Love Mentoring™ involves reeducating yourself and developing […]

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If I’m Perfect, No One Will Reject Me

Do you believe that being “perfect” gives you control over how people feel about you?” If you do, then you are coming from 3 big false beliefs that are causing you much unhappiness. False Belief #1 “I can have control over how people feel about me.” Think for a moment whether or not others have […]

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I recently received an email that prompted me to answer a poll about what I feared most. I didn’t reply to the email because my biggest fear at that moment was the fear of receiving more unsolicited email. However, I did start thinking about the subject of fear. What are we afraid of? What is […]

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When someone says the “M” word (“money”), what sort of reaction do you have? If you’re like most people with a pulse that are drawing breath, you likely have some sort of charge about it. After all we have given money SO much power over us that when we think of it the emotions and […]



Ultimately, that is the choice we make with our feelings hundreds of times a day-care or curse? The difference between the two often means happiness inside or despotic misery. The choice is real, most of the time automatic and situational, but once you begin to pay attention to your feelings and thoughts you will begin […]

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